Let Go of Your Divorce Fears
Take Hold of Your Future
Divorce Isn’t Easy
So Many Questions…
Is my marriage really over? Am I doing right by my kids? Can I afford to divorce? Should I fight for the house? Could I lose my business? How are we ever going to agree? Is co-parenting my only option? Is my lawyer right for me? Is a court battle inevitable? Am I being too passive? Too aggressive? What’s my new life going to look like? Am I ever going to be happy again? What do I even want?
So Much at Stake…
I’m Barbara Diggs, a DCA® Certified Divorce Coach and former attorney.
I help you explore challenging questions about divorce and separation, and identify clear-eyed solutions to your most urgent concerns.
Divorce is one of the most difficult life transitions a person can go through. Overwhelming feelings can leave you confused and exhausted. Conflict can spiral out of control. Strain and tension can make it hard to think clearly, leaving you vulnerable to making hasty or emotional decisions that ultimately work against you.
Fortunately, it doesn’t have to be this way.
With the right guidance and support, you can manage your emotions, reduce conflict, and avoid getting pulled into endless emotionally and financially draining battles with your soon-to-be-ex.
I’m here to help you define and stay focused on your goals so you can make informed, well-balanced decisions that allow you to feel confident about your future–and good about yourself.
But You Don’t Have To Go It Alone
✔ Identify divorce goals that support the future you want to create
✔ Make smart, future-focused financial choices
✔ Create a strategic long-term plan
✔ Explore alternatives and reality-test ideas
✔ Role-play difficult conversations
✔ Learn techniques to manage emotions and reduce conflict
✔ Improve communication and negotiating skills
✔ Better your co-parenting/parallel parenting relationship
✔ Avoid needless, costly mistakes
My divorce coaching sessions are a calm, judgment-free space where you can:
Get Clear. Confident. In Control.
I provide one-on-one coaching at every stage.
Where are you on your divorce journey?
Considering
You’ve been considering divorce for a while, but you still aren’t sure. You’re at a point where you want to think through all your options and make an intentional decision that feels right.
Managing
The decision’s been made–or has been made for you. You need help pulling your thoughts together and making smart choices that will benefit your life, relationships, finances, and emotional health for years to come.
Emerging
Your divorce is final, but you’re struggling to adjust to the changes in your life. How to improve relations with your co-parent? How to cope with the losses you’ve experienced? You want to move forward, but don’t know how.
Meet Your Coach
Hello, I’m Barbara.
I’m a certified Divorce Coach. A lawyer. A mom. A writer.
I’m based in Paris, France but work with clients anywhere the world to help them divorce or separate with as much peace and clarity as possible.
A Stanford law graduate and former corporate litigator, I turned to divorce coaching because I wanted to support people–particularly women and expats–facing this monumental change in their lives. I know how scary and lonely the specter of separation and divorce can be, but I also know how empowering it feels to have a solid plan to move forward.
